Monday, January 2, 2017

Letter #72

Dear Family and Friends,

Transfers arrived! I was surprised with the news that I´ll be staying! My new companion is Elder A. Pereira, from São Paulo. This will be his last transfer as a missionary. He actually already served here as zone leader in Campos, and is now coming back.


This week the streets were completely empty. Completely. Everyone went to the beach. If the people aren´t coming to us, we decided to go after them. Its an area a little bit distant, but we spent this week visiting the people who live near the beach, and therefore are in their houses. And, it worked! we had quite a few people come to church this Sunday, without us even going after them. No one there has heard of the gospel, so it was a good opportunity to share it with everyone.


This week I again finished the Book of Mormon. I know its true. Its true. I can´t deny that and never will. It's blessed my life immeasurably. I am so grateful for its teachings, clear and simple, that show the path to our Heavenly Father and eternal life. It strengthens my testimony of Jesus Christ. He is our Savior and Redeemer. The Only Begotten of the Father. I love Him and am so grateful for his atonement that strengthens me and allows me to repent. Please read the Book of Mormon this year. It will bless and change your life.

Love,

Elder Schenewark

Sunday, January 1, 2017

With All My Love

Dear Elder Schenewark,

Happy New Year! I know today isn't any different than yesterday, except it's always a chance to reevaluate and strive to do better. The missionaries were over last night and asked us to reflect on what good we had accomplished in 2016. We were drinking our New Year's Eve traditional Martinelli bubbly, except this year, Sis. Bach found plastic shot glasses. What a riot. The missionaries enjoyed our traditional toasting tradition, and we took a photo for their mothers. We've usually had apple or grape, but this year tried peach, pear and cranberry. I do believe pear was the favorite. We enjoyed our yearly Chinese food feast as well.

We went to and came back from Tyler this week, Wednesday to Friday, while the Bachs traveled to the Lubbock and Albuquerque temples. It's always good to see the Tyler cousins, always growing up so much in between our visits. Your aunt was very generous in sharing her washing machine with us. Ours has been out of commission since this summer, and I've been wearing weekly trips to the laundromat. I've been a fan ever since, as getting the wash all done in a couple of hours is wonderful. So we arrived back home a little heavier than when we left.

While we were in Tyler I determined that Miller had a case of untreated strep, from when I returned from my Boston trip and came home to him with a fever and sore throat, three weeks prior. Scarlatina. I spent a good portion of one afternoon wading through an urgent care center full of insurance bureaucracy. When returned, I had to then take Breyer in for a case of strep throat, wading again through an urgent care center now overflowing with bodies. Their fourth case this fall.

One afternoon when we were running a cycle through a cycle, water started pouring out a small hole in the door seal. While we're catching the mini Niagara all over the washroom floor, a log fell out of the fireplace. Too bad the water wasn't close to the fire. I could only laugh, as we're literally running to put out the fire.

Breyer had two more dental visits, and finished strong. They were very impressed they could treat her, not sending her to a pediatric dentist, and wanted to know why she was so well behaved.


Tanner and AnneMarie arrived Monday afternoon and we've been in party mode ever since. We had our traditional Yuletide Log sandwiches, and celebrated Christmas the next morning. My pile for you is accumulating ;-)


Cooper was happy with the motor and receiver he can use to fly his planes he's been making. Sawyer's happy with his iBobber, as he now can locate fish swarms underwater, or something like that. Miller's favorite present is the Nike basketball shoes your grandmother sent him for his birthday, and in a close second are the black socks and black shorts to match. Breyer's thrilled with her stuffed puppies. Dad loves his metal detector, and his fishing buddy as well. Sawyer's tried it in the backyard, the neighbor's yard, and every where he goes fishing.

With a couple of trips to the golf course, fishing, games, food and fun, we've thoroughly enjoyed ourselves. Some of the best moments have been just sitting around for prayer and scripture, and talking. And talking. And lots of laughing.

I'll close with some thoughts on teaching, as I know this is very applicable with your new responsibilities. One of my favorite sections in the Book of Mormon is Alma 17 and the sons of Mosiah. I'll just mention some bullet points: "Alma did rejoice exceedingly to see his brethren; and what added more to his joy, they were still his brethren in the Lord; yea:
they had waxed strong in the knowledge of the truth,
they had searched the scriptures diligently,
they had given themselves to much prayer and fasting,
they taught with power and authority of God,
they did suffer much both in body and in mind."

We love you. Again, Happy New Year. 2017. It will be a great year. Be good, stay safe.

Love,

Mom

Saturday, December 31, 2016

BIG Family


BIG Bear...


BIG Breakfast...


BIG jumps, BIG laughs...


BIG games...


BIG crowd/

Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Magical Moments


Working together to get a tractor up and running...


Christmas Eve yuletide log sandwiches


Miller's 10th birthday celebration...


Sawyer's mini bagpipes from Scotland...


Cooper's grill enthusiasm...


Having a kiddie table...


Having an adult table...


Having happy children...

Monday, December 26, 2016

Letter #71

Dear Family and Friends,

And it was wonderful to see all of you as well! Get better soon AnneMarie! That was the first Christmas tree I've seen in a long time, and it was doubly nice to see you all around it. It´s hard to say everything and talk to everyone in such a short time but I hope that you all know that I love you with all my heart. The internet connection fell in the middle of the prayer, and I didn't even get to say goodbye, but that´s okay.


As mentioned, this week has been slow on the work, and fast on the feasts. Everyone has left the city to go to the beach  - and I can´t blame them. We had our district Chrismas party. It went until 5, with volleyball and lots of food. I cooked the meat and its become my new hobby. There's something relaxing about it. We had our ward Christmas party. We had to leave, and didn't participate, but hey, it happened.


Christmas Eve the members came to our house bringing lots of food and caroling. A beautiful choir. And barbecue everyday for lunch. Unfortunately this week will be much of the same thing. It's good to enjoy the holidays, but it makes the work awfully tough for missionaries. We´re trying to think of something creative to help. Yesterday, our stake´s attendance was a hair above 250.
 


I really like how the original apostles viewed their trials. As Peter taught in 1 Peter 4;12-12: "Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you; But rejoice, inasmuch as ye are partakers of Christ´s sufferings; that when his glory shall be revealed, ye may be glad also with exceeding joy."


Now, there´s a whole lot I´d like to say on that, but I´ll just close with the words of Paul in 2 Cor. 4;17, one of my favorite scriptures: "For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory."

Our trials, well fought and supported, bring the blessings. Bring us an eternal reward. So never, never give up. Give thanks for the opportunity to grow and learn.

Love,

Elder Schenewark

Sunday, December 25, 2016

With All My Love

Dear Elder Schenewark,

Merry Christmas to me! What a treat to talk with you. We love you. You are our present under the tree, so to speak. The present that symbolizes the spirit of Christmas.


You look fantastic. You sound even better. Your eyebrow wiggles and eyebrow raising made me remember your face. Your nose crinkle made me remember your face even more. But your voice, even with your funny accent, and your laugh, melted my heart. I love ending our missionary visits with Dad's prayer, except we were all surprised when your face had disappeared after we opened our eyes. Where did you go?

One of the best stories I heard this week was from your grandmother. Your grandfather made a hefty purchase at a store this week, and one of his big ticket items was not rung up at all. He discovered the mistake, mentioned it to your grandmother, and she tag teamed him and drove back to pay the bill. Such a good story in today's world where most people, I think, would consider themselves lucky.

The second best story comes from Breyer. We were up the street for a home teaching visit, at our neighbors's house, where Bro. Counts asked if Breyer knew what gifts were given to baby Jesus. She said, "Frankenstein and Merv." Too, too funny.

Porter had his wisdom teeth removed Tuesday. He's done very well in his recovery. Dad said he was very flirty with one nurse coming out of anesthesia. He'll say he did it on purpose. He's visited a few friends, decorated cookies, played basketball with a former teammate, and sewed Christmas bags.

I suppose I have a bit of news to share...I resigned from my job. I signed up for five 8 hour shifts, easily slid into four 10 hour shifts, but being required to work four 12 hour shifts was a bit too much, with my commute, which worsened coming home in rush hour traffic. I would have had to go four days without seeing at least Breyer, probably Miller. I gave them a two week notice, and finished up Wednesday. I was very sad. I was good at the job, which is difficult, taxing, busy, stressful. I would have liked to remain and continue to work towards becoming better.


The Bachs have been here since Wednesday. Such fun times together! We've played lots of games: Chicken Foot, Mexican Train, Rummy Cube...Legos...Bro. Bach and Cooper have been working on the tractor, and have the engine up and running...still working on smoothing out the engine, and then will figure out how to get the deck reattached, and ensure the belt is functioning. Nothing like a little Christmas side project to keep you entertained. The three youngest have gone golfing with Bro. Bach as well. Breyer thinks she had a hole in one, because she only hit the ball one time on that hole. They said she had a fifty yard drive, though, even with her funny grip.

Breyer had her six month dental check-up, and was told she has TWELVE cavities! Oh dear! All in the four back molars, which have VERY deep pockets that are hard to clean. We went back the next day and they filled to minor cavities to see how she would do. Next time we're getting the shot for numbing, and major drilling. Eventually, whatever molars are left will be covered in sealants.

We made gingerbread houses on Friday, and decorated them Saturday morning. I only had to make six this year ;-) Dad helps me with gluing them together. Sis. Bach helps me with everything else. Later on in the day we took them to six families, and caroled at their front door until they answered.

Tomorrow your brother and his wife arrive. I haven't seen them for a year, and until today, really haven't talked with them since August.

Today was my first day in church in a long time, and I got to play Christmas music on the organ. I also got to hear Cooper bless the sacrament for the first time. We were reading from The Book of Mormon in 3rd Nephi, where the signs of Christ's birth are mentioned. I had forgotten those who were against the Nephites fell to the earth as if dead, "for they knew that the great plan of destruction which they had laid for those who believed in the words of the prophets had been frustrated; for the sign which had been given was already at hand...and they began to fear because of their iniquity and their unbelief."

One day those whom you've taught, will realize you were right, and feel similar feelings. Not so much for being against you, such as those who were causing the Nephites to perish, but more for not believing.

Go on and continue in your work, enduring to the end, and never quitting. We love you. We're so proud of you. So glad to see you today.

Love,

Mom

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Gingerbread Houses to Run Around

Porter gave his to the neighbors-who-never-forget-us,
Cooper gave his to a faithful giver-of-rides-when-Mom's-not'able,
Sawyer chose to give his to a favorite teacher,
Miller gave his to a family with cancer adventures,
Breyer gave hers to her Fairy God Mother.




 






Friday, December 23, 2016

Christmas Baking Buddy

(with a little flour to go on the nose)


Thursday, December 22, 2016

Blast from the Past

Dad's letter jacket from high school, over thirty years old, and in prime condition.
And it has a new fan.