Saturday, August 31, 2019

With All My Love

Dear Children,

I think this is it. Saturday mornings. It's quiet enough at work, like Sunday mornings, and close enough to Sunday, I think I'll adjust.

Obviously the intent to write you has fallen by the wayside. I almost miss working Sundays, when I was strapped in a chair and wanting to do something good. Now I'm never home. Last Sunday was stake conference. I had been asked to play the organ so we got there early enough to warm it up, figure out how to set the stops, and play prelude for thirty minutes. I had cramps in my fingers by 10 a.m. And I made the family sit up front. If I have to play, I want to sit by my family when I'm not. One of the best ideas came from a collaboration between President Harmer and the new President of the Fort Worth Mission. They decided that the major of questions asked by nonmembers came from the youth, and wanted to provide the youth with answers to questions that might arise. So, they came up with Thunder Thursdays: Wherein the missionaries visit seminary classes every Thursday, for five minutes, present a frequently asked question, and what the response could be.

And, by adding a few minutes to each class, the seminary classes have the option of not meeting on Fridays, which has been instituted in our ward. So we're now a four day week.

I've been asked to continue piano lessons with the young women, so we met for two hours at the church. I have seven young ladies and one young man learning, plus my three. My favorite part is when the they join me on the bench to play the organ for prelude.

From there we went to a family's house in the ward who invited us for dinner. Olaussons. Almost as confusing as Schenewark. We enjoyed getting to know their family better. It was very thoughtful of them, and much appreciated as I didn't have to worry about dinner. I guess now that our family is getting smaller invitations to dinner might be more frequent.

I am still slowly putting the house back together after the hotel like comings and goings of this summer. I had Cooper almost packed up and now he wants me to unpack to find some drawing utensils. And winter boots. Porter is all packed up and we're still missing some of his belongings. I guess I'll be checking the garage next.

It's so exciting to have four boys at the same school at the same time. 

I've heard from a few of you this week, which is always a delight. Your father and I delight in hearing from our children. Even if I'm not on the phone, he sits by me so I can hear your conversations. From what we've gathered, Porter continues to charm Hunter with his dating activities on his behalf.Showing up with one girl on each arm for Hunter's weekly singing at the nursing home date event still makes Hunter laugh.

Cooper has had his big move in day, with more activities scheduled than he knew about, and fun at each one. He also experienced working his first football game, made a little longer due to the weather, but a nice bonus when the check arrives. Porter and Cooper are both still working on financial aid options. Let the games begin!

And heard from the least due to sickness in the abode - TannMarie. So sorry! but grateful it's over there. Actually, it might be over here. Wagner has had a few unmentionable episodes, requiring the rental of a carpet cleaner, and now probably a professional carpet cleaner.

Last night Breyer was convinced, after learning she had tied him to her bed, that he had thrown up on her. She insisted on taking a shower, and sleeping in the guest room, but Dad didn't find anything. Life is always an adventure.

Miller spends his afternoons still hitting baseballs or throwing frisbees in the backyard, or playing basketball and using the hit away in the front yard. Begrudgingly he practices the piano for me, and is now in the basic hymn book.

Breyer spent all week earning money for the book fair, doing chores that never quite get finished. Good for her.

Sawyer brought his friend Matthew home for steak fajitas last night, before going back to school for the football game. They were joining their third - Nathan - and had plans to also play basketball in the morning. I'm happy he has such good friends while in high school. He's been juggling adding seminary to his schedule this week, using the Schenevan, morning basketball practices, afternoon weight room requirements, and baseball practice when it all works out.

Dad had an awesome idea for a school event in February, in relation to this upcoming year being the 100th anniversary of the Negro baseball leagues. His Dean loved it, with a few tweaks of her own, but he's off and running. Between Tanner's invitation to speak at BYU, that proposal, and the on going France trip in March, he's a busy professor.

My favorite family times this week have also included our nightly Come Follow Me moments. They're not perfect but we are gathering. In Corinthians, Paul asks, "Are we not carnal?" Your father asks, "What does it mean to be carnal?" He got the definition of carnivore from Miller, the definition of carnival from Breyer, and cairn from Sawyer. I couldn't stop laughing.

Then there's the deliveries. Miller's section was a section of chapters in Corinthians. He thought it was chapter and verse, and read us a racy answer to a question about spiritual gifts. Breyer forgot to do her reading and instead presented us with a blown up balloon representing the covenants that can lift us to heaven, and asked us to tell her what the covenants we've made are, which she then wrote on the balloon.

Family is great. Aunt Jenny's family getting bigger today. Welcome Riley to the family!

Love,

Mom

Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Saturday, August 17, 2019

With All My Love

Dear Children,

I'm still struggling to find a routine again with writing. But I am writing. Just not finishing.

Porter is still working away at all his odd jobs. The Smith family has provided a constant source through yard work. Stumpy hours actually increased because other employees are leaving. All financial blessings. He has yet to pack and his belongings are scattered everywhere. I just try to work around him, knowing that soon enough the rooms will be uncluttered. After sleeping on the floor for almost a month, he moved to the king size bed. He did try the bunk bed a night or two but the top bunks are too hot with the leftover Texas heat rising to his heights.

Sawyer had a momentous few days before school. He went with Dad to Stephenville, and was able to pass and obtain his first drivers license. A few days before he got his braces off, was given retainers, and was able to flash those pearly whites for his license photo. All part of his plan. Friday we put him on the insurance policy, and removed Cooper and Porter. And my price stayed the same. Got to love Sawyer's age range. He did qualify for the good student discount!

Miller is still tentatively finding his way around his new middle school status. After two days of sitting in gym, finally playing dodge ball Friday seemed to cement his new routine a bit more firmly. He's so anchored around his physical accomplishments he was a bit lost. He's maintained a 100% on daily quizzes, of which my finding out make his eyes roll. M

Breyer has slid into the school routine like she never left. New teacher, new classmates - as long as she has recess with old friends she's happy. Getting the bedtime routine  and the morning wake up routine backed up a few hours each has been a bit more work. My being home Monday and Tuesday mornings has been nice in that regard.


Liam's adoption

Jarrod is working on the trip to France, his on line classes, his fall schedule, his new responsibilities as President of the Faculty Senate , and of course there's being the Bishop. He doesn't have a lot of downtime but he has loved playing weekly baseball games with his boys. Having everyone there for one game this summer was his highlight. He's taking the young men to a Ranger's game today, and of course there's a bobble head giveaway.

Wagner's training seems to be temporarily on hold. I can't go to the Saturday training meetings, and can't advance on my own. I have been invited this Monday to an interview, to see if I am formally accepted onto the SORT team. After that I'll have to work at unofficial trainings until my schedule changes. I spent early Wednesday morning in the ER with Porter. I feel bad keeping him all night but was glad he was up when I had to go. I thought I was having a urinary tract infection, but as I've never had one before, learned that would be no. Passing copious blood clots and blood aren't common occurrences, and are related to having a bladder infection. I feel lucky never having to go through this in my first century. Here's to hoping it won't happen again for an other fifty years.

Here's hoping to another fifty years.

Mom






Friday, August 16, 2019

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Sunday, August 4, 2019

With All My Love

Dear Children,

How are you all doing? I live with most of you, have had contact recently with those not home, but sometimes feel like I need to reconnect. I'm sure our Heavenly Father has this feeling down pat. My greatest joy is found in being with my family, working together, playing together, laughing together. I love my family. That this is an eternal blessing, and I can have it, makes me happy. Considering I could have not known of this blessing, or not had a family I would wish to be with, makes me even more grateful.



I think it not coincidental that I chose to read Great Love for Our Father’s Children by Elder Quentin L. Cook. Elder Cook.  He said, "Love is the primary attribute and motive for the spiritual purposes we were charged to undertake by our beloved prophet... When members gain a vision of this kind of love, which is essential in assisting the Lord in His purpose, the Lord’s work will be accomplished." Elder Cook also had this wonderful promise, that "Ordinances [performed] for ancestors will strengthen and protect our youth and families in a world that is becoming increasingly evil." Your father is so good about promoting genealogy and temple work.


The highlight of last week had to be our visit from Jarrod's sister from California, with your adorable cousin, and our trip to Tyler. We haven't gone any where this summer. Breyer keeps pointing this out to me. And I always tell her, "Everybody came to visit us instead." Lounging in the sun by the pool is my favorite summer activity. Throw in volleyball games in the pool, games at night, games around the table, and it was wonderfully relaxing. God bless your extended family members who always are so generous in opening their home to so many of us.

The obvious low light of last week was when everybody left. A bunch of us back to Granbury. Three to Utah, Two to California, and One to Colorado.

TannMarie are enroute to Utah with an extended stop in Utah while they wait for their apartment to become available. Nora is addictive, and I find myself gnawing on baby toys to compensate. I miss her running outside when I honk to get my welcome home hug in exchange for time in my car. I miss her eating at the table. The seat I had arranged to use at the table did not work out, and AnneMarie was a trooper, getting through mealtimes with Nora on her lap or standing up on the chair. I just plain miss them all.

Cooper decided at the last minute to earn some more money by working on a campground and resort his friend's parents now have custody of. He drove out to Creed, CO, where there is no internet service, hence no phone calls.

Porter is enjoying taking over Cooper's job of bringing home StumpyCakes. And working for pay. He also took over the job offered to Cooper to take care of a home and pool while the owners are away on vacation. Vacation for us as we now have daily access to a pool in triple digit summer weather.

Wishing for More Summer,

Mom