Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother's Day

I would be lying if I told you Mother's Day was everything I wanted and more. I wasn't expecting much, but somehow I was wanting more. Miller is soooo active, at two years of age, and after coming home from church I spent my entire day attending to his needs: food, spills, painting, spills, books, spills, sink spraying, spills...you get the idea. It was like the fires in California - uncontainable.

I was having a pretty good pity party. But as I reflected on what's happened this week, I had a great Mother's Day. I found my wedding ring. It's really nice to be married again! I had to work the snack shack at the baseball fields Friday night, and a huge thunderstorm arrived and cancelled all the games. My duty was done. And there was my husband to escort me to my car in the storm. I know how much he loves and cares about me. I had the missionaries ask if they could make their Mother's Day phone call from here. One to Hawaii and one to Utah. I made cinnamon rolls and fried dough during their phone calls. I hope someday a mother would do the same for my sons. In three years I hope to being a twelve year stretch of sons calling home from missions on Mother's Day.


Jarrod's gift to me was all the Cubscout and Scout mother's pins I was missing. There were ten for me to put on my scout necklaces. I was touched. I usually have an inkling of an idea what he's up to, or if money has been spent. I did not expect anything (no money missing=he sold a book back to the bookstore) and never thought of this. It was a great idea! I'm still missing two square Webelos badges, the store here only has the Boy Scout pins, but there are many more years. What caught you off guard this year?

8 comments:

Unknown said...

Your post.
It says so much! (I love honesty)
Happy Mother's Day... I feel guilty every year for not liking Mother's Day too much. Maybe it's because my expectations surpass the reality (even though I think I set the bar fairly low). But it's probably more that Mother's Day reminds me of how I fall short of my own expectations--every year I tell myself to relax and enjoy being special, but it's hard. I'm my own worst critic. You're a great mom! And the chaos of young children doesn't last forever, even though in the moment, it feels like there will never be a different reality. Motherhood is as much a part of growing into who we are, as it is about helping our children to grow into the adults who leave the nest (we hope).
Jarrod's great!
What a thoughtful gift.

Becky said...

Happy Mother's Day to my other favorite sister. :) I love you and your example of what motherhood is all about.

LL said...

this post gave me chills. LOVED IT!
Love that you found your wedding ring. Love the honesty. Love that you had a good day after all...and I especially love that Miller is keeping you so young :)
You're an amazing mother, and I OFTEN think of the quote you gave me YEARS ago...there's a special place in heaven for the mothers of little boys.
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY AMY JO!!!

Nellie said...

Thank you for being a great example of a nuturing and serving mother. You are one of the best! I am glad Jarrod found you.

Dana said...

Happy Mother's day, Amy Jo. I'm glad that you had a good one after all! You are an amazing woman and mother. I love ya and miss you so much. I got asked to teach last minute for Jordan's class. That's what caught me off guard today!

Wholly Duncan said...

Congrats on finding the ring, I didn't know that. Yes, some Mother's Days are better than others, but I wouldn't change a thing.

CubSctAnn said...

What a nice to thing to do for Mother's Day. What a goodly Dad you and your boys have :) I'll check and see if we have any Webelose Badgesin our stock. If we do, we'll bring them next WEEK! :P

shirlgirl said...

Great post, Amy Jo, and the best part is that you found your wedding ring!! I am so happy for you that you did find it. And to Jarrod for what he did for you on Mother's Day. Even though I don't have children of my own, Uncle David's oldest son, Kenny, along with Rosie and Becky sent me a beautiful flower basket arrangement for Mother's Day. I was so pleased. Uncle David and I and a church friend went to breakfast/lunch at a local eatery, and then Mardi and I went to a play at the Footlighters--A Neil Simon musical "They're Playing Our Song". Uncle David didn't want to go, so I asked Mardi. We had a nice time, and she had never been to the Footlighters before. Glad we went. And a belated Happy Mother's Day to you.