Sunday, January 12, 2014

With All Our Love

Dear Tanner,

We were sent some more photos of you! What a treat! Nothing better than checking the computer and finding your smiling face...Enough to make the whole hard day so much better! Looks like your leadership conference had a good lunch! We'll love hearing about it in your letter today.




Monday during the day it was so cold, our hot water froze. Somehow, between wash, dishes, dishwasher, showers, cooking...I should have left the water dripping? We boiled water for bathing and washing dishes, and left the wash alone. School Monday and Tuesday were cancelled, due to the extreme cold temperatures, and school Wednesday was a two-hour delay. Your brothers were good sports, and handled their bucket bath, before school, well. There was a one pan allotment, and even Dad got his whiskers shaved before his bucket had cooled. By Wednesday the weather warmed, and our frozen pipe thawed, revealing three burst spots, wherein water began pouring out of them into the garage. Thank goodness for Larry! He knew how to turn off the water at the street level, with three of his BIG wrenches (no wonder people call the fire department for stuff like this!), and then when the landlords gave him permission, he fixed the pipe. So we were without any water most of Wednesday, but by 9:30 p.m. the showers began, the smell faded, and the Schenewarks were ready to go!

FYI Mutual is now on Thursday, so as not to compete with the other ward over facilities, etc. It's also earlier, beginning at 6 p.m. Sometime Thursday evening, this story evolved:

CHARLESTON, W.Va. (AP) — At least 100,000 customers in nine West Virginia counties were told not to drink, bathe, cook or wash clothes using their tap water because of a chemical spill into the Elk River in Charleston, with Gov. Earl Ray Tomblin declaring a state of emergency Thursday for all those areas. The chemical, a foaming agent used in the coal preparation process, leaked from a tank at Freedom Industries, overran a containment area and went into the river earlier Thursday. The amount that spilled wasn't immediately known, but West Virginia American Water has a treatment plant nearby and it is the company's customers who are affected. The don't-drink-the-water declaration involves customers in the counties of Kanawha, Boone, Cabell, Clay, Jackson, Lincoln, Logan, Putnam and Roane. Most of the counties surround the capital city of Charleston, where there was a chemical smell similar to licorice in the air both outdoors and in areas where it had already reached the water supply on Thursday night.

While we weren't directly affected by this leak, being a bit upriver, the thought of going without water again is overwhelming. Imagine having water in your home but not able to use it! It's hard to store enough water for a large family, and I definitely underestimate the true amount I would need for an extended period of time. Today they still don't have water, the parts per million is still too high, and the leak is moving down river.

By Friday our routine was fully established once again. Two days of seminary this week, and the week was over! We spent the morning at Cooper's quiz bowl tournament. Fairland would win or lose - by a point - and were finally ousted after two losses, finishing third in the county.




We also got our VW Jetta back from the repair shop. What a long haul! They've had the car since before Christmas. It's nice to have a few more wheels to use around here. The three older boys played basketball at the church with six missionaries, a few friends, and a few members - 21 total. They come home SO tired it's wonderful!

Saturday morning Cooper participated in his first all county band solo competition. The fact that Cooper spent his lunch hour in the band room practicing for this solo impressed us, as he did it of his own accord. Of course he had a few buddies that were in there as well, but we were pleased he chose to better himself this way. We kept checking the website all weekend, but his results have not been posted. We'll keep you updated!


Sawyer is the only one with a basketball game this weekend, as Miller's age doesn't keep score, so no need for an end-of-the year tournament, and Cooper was in the band competition. Sawyer's team went undefeated the whole season, and through two tournaments (16-0). I love their coach! He is staying with the team next year, so Sawyer will get to play with him again (4th-5th graders). He also made all stars, and will begin next week. Maybe. He was accidentally tripped and fell on one finger. He thought it was broken, so we spent the afternoon visiting medical facilities. The doctor told us it wasn't broken, but today we received a phone call from a radiologist who thinks we need to see an orthopedist, so we'll be visiting Cooper's hand doctor (I wonder what he thinks of the Schenewarks in his frequent flyer program!) in the morning.

Sawyer was given his HUGE jaw breaker from a cousin in Texas, and has been whittling away on it here and there. He thought you might enjoy seeing it, and basking in its planet-like beauty ;-)
 



Today in church both Cooper and your father spoke. I always love listening to your Dad talk. Cooper did a great job. And I quote,"Breyer truly believes she's a princess. She spends time every morning getting ready for her job of being a princess. She brushes her teeth, with everybody's toothbrushes, puts a lot of clips, bows and bands in her hair, chooses which necklaces and bracelets to wear, uses chapstick and lotion, and finishes off with the hair dryer. She has her princess duties to fulfill and works hard getting ready. If everybody knew as well as Breyer knows she is a princess, that they are children of Heavenly Father, and got ready for their role as well as Breyer does, what would they do to "Come Unto Christ?" He was asked to speak on the new 2014 mutual theme, "Come Unto Christ."

Even with those wonderful speakers, these little urchins had a hard time being reverent, and got to practice on the couch today after church. Can you tell it helped? At least they look good being naughty! The reason? They stayed up late with the older brothers watching the New England Patriots win their divisional round by rolling over the Indianapolis Colts 43-22. There were even conversations with your grandfather on his couch in Massachusetts watching the same game. He wanted to know how he could get a hold of some of our popcorn! No.more.late.games!


Dad is reading "Building Leaders: West Point Way" by Major General Joseph P. Franklin, as your cousin Evan is there. I haven't read the book, but in reading the introduction found this quote I loved: "Leadership, according to Joe Franklin, comes from 'common sense and accumulated wisdom.' Trouble is common sense doesn't turn out to be all that common, and wisdom can be elusively hard to accumulate." You are young, and collectively have yet to accumulate a lot of wisdom, so be sure to draw upon support from others with experience. Ask your missionaries if they could change one thing, what would it be? Or, what is the best way we can help you? Thought provoking questions will always get to the heart of the manner the quickest. We're proud of you, the leader you've become, and the leaders you're helping to develop.


Saturday, January 11, 2014

Friday, January 10, 2014

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

A Scary Nightmare!


"Mom, there was a bad squirrel kicking me in my dream!"

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Monday, January 6, 2014

Letter #76


(For Breyer!)

Dearest Family,

I figure this letter better be a good one as my circumstances are the most comfortable I have yet encountered in the mission as far as p-day email communication. I sit in the mission office on the 6th story with a wonderful view of sunny Londina, sunny prospects and having only fair winds at my back (we baptized more than João Pessoa, Uncle Zach).

This week we spent a large part of our time preparing the mission for the leader's counsel and putting into place a few new rule changes as it relates to age and requirements for baptism. Administrative things. I developed quickly some tools for the mission to use to measure productivity of areas in the mission, and I also made my first "pitch" to the president this morning, suggesting that we open, or begin plans to open, or close, some areas in the mission. Exciting times here in the mission, ambitious and gutsy come to mind.

The new year was welcomed in the presence of President and it was even more wonderful than Christmas. More informal, the conversation flowed as well as the food and drink. President even revealed his long held secret--he plays the piano extremely well by ear. . .Who knew? The night was rainy and so we passed the new year night in peace, able to sleep undisturbed by the bombs they let off so constantly in the streets. The next day we made our way back to our area (we slept in Londrina) and there we had a wonderful lunch as well, made the more wonderful by the presence of two investigators that we were teaching. They were coming along well but unfortunately desisted at the end of the week. I think Sunday is nearly always the highlight of the week, because there is a marvelous spirit that comes from the sacrament meeting. 

This week was a jewel among jewels. We heard the sweet and simple testimony of a convert of two months. He came without his family this week to church. His newly formed testimony is passing through the refiner's fire, but I believe Sunday marked his triumph. He stated simply, "I know that the Book of Mormon is true. This church is true." What marvelous power was behind his words! If you will remember the experience of Brigham Young in his conversion, what had made the difference was the testimony of an ineloquent man, stating what he knew. Although I have long been a member of the church I felt that I had a very similar experience to this on Sunday.

After that, the sweet and peaceful spirit accompanied the rest of the day's activities, including the opening of a mission call of a young man baptized nine months ago. He will serve in São Paulo East, and I expect we will baptize the rest of his family before he leaves. A tender moment and one of which the spirit took full advantage of to testify to his loved ones that, THESE THINGS ARE TRUE! Afterwards we led the ward in a training about how to conduct Priesthood Executive and Ward Council meetings. It went well and as a result souls will be strengthened as visits are made to those who need them. We made one of these visits that night, heading to a home where we spoke about the atonement and its enabling and ennobling power. Sometimes all someone needs is love. How I have learned that on the mission.

As I felt so spiritually fed yesterday it led me to reflect on the importance of the spirit, as I have frequently during the mission. That is essential that we keep his influence in our lives constantly, I have no doubt and it has become a matter of extreme importance that we live and make choices in such a manner that this happens. How I desire and am thankful for the companionship of the Holy Spirit.

That you too may be lifted this week, I pray,

Love,

Tanner

Sunday, January 5, 2014

With All Our Love

I am concerned about your shoes. There is no contest you need to enter in making your shoes last your whole mission. You'll be much more comfortable, and work better and longer if your feet (and ultimately back) are not in pain. I figure we have a few options, and wearing multiple pairs of liners is not one of them. I can order a new pair, and have them shipped to you...you can look into how much resoling the shoes will cost...you can look into the price of a new pair of postal worker type shoes are in Londrina. Let me know what you're doing, and how we can help. We can always put money in your bank account if you choose the Brazilian options.

The other item of concern is your drivers license. We got a card in the mail, as it is still expired. Did you get their paperwork? Did you get my cashiers check (birthday box)? If you did, was the paperwork sent in right away? If everything has been done, and you're just waiting for your license in the mail, I won't worry.

Hunter wants to room with you. No doubt about that. Couldn't talk him into the freshman experience of living on campus ;-)

Dear Tanner,

Here we are, back at writing again, another week down in the books. We were in Texas last week, and due to staying up a bit late, and losing one hour with the time zone switch, we woke up to your letter already in the inbox. What a great way to start the day! Again, I love your new position of leadership and the many pictures we have access to now. However, I am mindful of those mothers less fortunate, and hope that as you travel, you too would take pictures for me to share with their mothers. And, perhaps with the president's blessing, travel with a few extra pesos in the pocket to make their day as yummy as your evenings have been with the president and his family.


The funeral home's message page for Elder Thomas was passed along to me, and I shared your thoughts with his family. It was encouraging to see other missionary moms leave messages as well. Such a thing I hope never to have to endure.

Our last few days in Texas were spent enjoying the outside weather and family. I even caught Dad sitting in a chair, with a coat, in the backyard, soaking up some sun. He was happy to be there, and had a hard time adjusting to the cold when we returned. More on that later. These pictures show how we spent some of our time: 

Playing in the costumes...



Meeting Grandma Amy for ice cream...

  




Lots of trampoline time...


And playing the couch game, with Luke and his "flu bug" Thankfully, unless there's a really long incubation period, we did not catch it!


We were suppose to leave Tuesday, New Year's Eve, but thought it would be better to leave after all the festivities of the New Year were over. So we stayed an extra day. Some of the pictures in your email detail our activities. The only hiccup we had in staying longer was contacting Stephen, who was staying in our house and watching Ranger, to see if he could stay longer. Larry helped us work out the fine details. As a thank you, we brought Larry back a bottle of Rudy's barbeque sauce. He said he had heard of Rudy's sauce because they sponsor gun shows, but didn't think they were a big deal. Now that he has his own bottle, he's a believer. He said he even put it on his bologna sandwich, and it tasted so much better! Isn't that so funny?

Our return trip was uneventful, so much more pleasant for me with no pain and no car sickness. Traveling on New Year's Eve day is a good time, as traffic was very light! Hurray! We returned home to all being well, Ranger happy to have us home, and a big table of mail. Because the rest of the week was still holiday from school, your brothers helped take down Christmas decorations and the tree, and put away travel bags and clothes. Sawyer was eager to help me on a project using his new tools. Your grandmother, in December, thought of using the train table, with the crib mattress, as a new bed for Breyer. It was wonderful except one side was unprotected and she rolled off the bed so she hasn't been using it. One night I envisioned the side railing that she would need, and Sawyer was able to build it for me. It was perfect! I'm so glad I asked him! (Although Dad put another rail on to keep her head from getting caught.)


He worked in very cold conditions to help me. I said I would get back to our cold weather. It's bitter cold. The yearly arctic freeze that happens every January. Tomorrow's the coldest day they've had here since 1994. Sawyer has kept us well informed about potential frostbite and hypothermia conditions. I'm sure down in sultry, hot, hazy Brazil these frigid conditions are very hard to imagine. But soon you too will once again put on your sweaters and everything wool to stay toasty warm. Tonight we go from 50 degrees to 24 degrees by 6 a.m. (feels like 11) to 5 degrees by 6 p.m. (feels like -14) to -1 (feels like -21) tomorrow night at midnight. And, I'm sure the boys' vacation will be extended by a day or two. (Just got the word the morning is on a two hour delay! - No seminary!)

Porter keeps me on his toes. He has a little book he uses for recipes, and is always pushing me to try new things (crepes) or let him make old things (hot chocolate) so he can write the recipe in his book. You know the rule: If you don't make it, you can't write it in your cookbook! Anyway, tonight's recipe was popovers, made in muffin tins. He thought they looked delectible, and with chicken cooked in a bit of Rudy's sauce, he had a masterpiece. You'll love to have him cook for you.

Your teacher forwarded us a video of you performing your tenth grade mathematician rap. It was fun to see you in action! It was a day or two after you had knocked out your front teeth, and had a fat lip, but you did great performing around your impediments! It was very kind of her to think of us after so long!

We returned to cold weather, and basketball games and concession stand duty. The boys finished up the season Saturday. It is a success if they're playing better than when they began. Cooper improved drastically! Sawyer refined his already set of sweet skills. Miller use to only take half court shots, as shooting far away was the only way he could play with his big brothers. Now he can do a sweet lay up! This is a picture of Sawyer's team, first in the holiday tournament, undefeated, first in the league.


Last night we watched a funny movie, Lone Ranger with Johnny Depp. The best part was when Dad went to return the Redbox DVD, and it checked him in at 8:59:37, making the cut off time by 23 seconds. What a guy! Here he is with your dapper brother, and his new Fairland green bow tie and vest from your Grandmother with serious knitting skillz.


Hunter wore his vest today as well...


That's about all I can squeeze out of our quiet week! We're excited to hear about yours! While reading in Alma 7, I came across the beautiful passage wherein Alma describes the "one thing which is of most importance than...all:" 

"And he shall go forth, suffering pains and afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be fulfilled which saith he will take upon him the pains and the sicknesses of his people. And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities. Now the Spirit knoweth all things; nevertheless the Son of God suffereth according to the flesh that he might take upon him the sins of his people, that he might blot out their transgressions according to the power of his deliverance; and now behold, this is the testimony which is in me." 

As said by Elder Hafen, "The atonement is not just for sinners." Jesus Christ suffered to save us from sin and death AND to help us through the challenges of mortality. Whether we're searching for self-esteem, or facing disease, depression or death, or having any kind of missionary type issues, Elder Holland says it best. "Come first to the gospel of Jesus Christ. Trust in heaven's promises." We surely hope your week to come is full of love and the knowledge that your parents place you first in their hearts.

Love,

Mom and Dad

Saturday, January 4, 2014

"Make 'Play' While the Sun Shines"

One of the benefits of visiting Texas during December, is the weather is so pleasant!











Hurray for great weather, and great parks!
(Brookshires, Tyler)

Friday, January 3, 2014

A Day at the Museum

The name speaks for itself: Brookshire's World of Wildlife...
What a museum!
From the old days and old money of big game hunting -


Although the princess was a little unsure as to whether or not she was in a museum or a zoo!

  
No matter how much we tried, she was convinced the eyes were moving, the necks turning, and the tails wagging ;-)



 


  
This monkey scene sealed the deal - she was out of there!


But the boys always have and still do LOVE the animals!