Monday, May 31, 2021

With All My Love

 Dear Elder Schenewark,

We got your picture of you on top of your Mount. Such a great picture to send us on Memorial Day.  At the last moment, Dad told Breyer about a Memorial Day Patriotic Dog Contest, and of course she was in. We decided to dress him up in Grampy's Navy shirt and hat. He was a crowd pleaser, got lots of photos, selfies, and cheers. Unfortunately, the judge was speaking in someone's ear when the crowd cheered, and she did not select him as one of three whom had the largest crowd support. That's okay. It was a fun memory. Through in a few hot dogs, a couple of games of Ticket to Ride, the movie The Lost Battalion, and more rain, and it was a good day.

Texas has been receiving an unusal amount of rain this month. May is normally the rainiest month of the year, but we've had rain for over four weeks, and our yard has been soggy f o r e v e r ! And I don't think it means we've broken any record. Just a wet spring I know we were in a bit of a drought, because of the fall precipitation, so this is good news.

Grampy went into the hospital again Saturday night.  Your grandmother  stepped out for a few minutes and came home to him having a throat hugely swollen. She called the ambulance. He's responded well to the medication, had to be intubated and sedated, but we'll know more tomorrow, when the holiday is over.

Sawyer has been working on leather baseball cards and a wallet this week, and working out with his friend Matthew, even joining him for early morning swims with the swim team. Miller is asking to branch out to frisbee golf courses outside Granbury.  Hopefully when the rain stops we can help him visit Benbrook and Fort Worth.

We're still waiting for your call today. But if doesn't work out - know we love you. We cheer for you. We pray for you. We love you.

Mom

Thursday, May 27, 2021

Monday, May 17, 2021

With All My Love

Dear Elder Schenewark, 

 Just typing that made me smile as I reflect on your three brothers serving, and the letters I typed for them. Although in this case I'm writing Cooper, and that also puts another smile on my face. We miss you. We spoke of you all weekend, as Hunter flew in this past Friday, and you're the only one she hasn't met. Dad and I picked them up at the airport, and drove straight to Rodeo Goat burgers and fries. They were starving. Their plane sat on the tarmac a while, so they arrived a bit late, and hadn't eaten anything all day. 

We also stopped off at the Fort Worth Stockyards just in time for the 4 p.m. cattle drive. Although we didn't buy anything, we shopped a while in their western themed shops. Using our persuasive skills we talked our way into the rodeo arena for a picture, and to show Jules the steep seats and dirt floor. We arrived home just in time to scoop up kids and head to Sawyer's area finals baseball game. I stopped at the first game the night before, in Arlington, while on the way home for work. After a couple of innings in overtime, the 7-7 game ended 7-8, their win. And the second game also ended in a loss. So Sawyer's baseball season is over, and if feelings remain true, he will not be playing next year. Miller's season is also over, with him not participating in the last two weeks as his knee injury heals. He has been invited without trying out, to play on the all star team, by a coach who has had him in the past, and he will join them for a couple of weeks' long season. 

Your siblings are in their last week of school, ending Thursday in a half a day. And they are all still studying and taking tests as well. I remember the last week of school as not being so important, but know this to be wrong this year watching Sawyer stay up until 2 a.m. after a baseball game to study, and spend 12 hours Saturday in his chair doing homework. Miller has an award ceremony at the middle school tomorrow. The only reason I'm telling you this is he has his outfit picked out already. Hilarious. A purple button up over one of his purple and white athletic shirts; and a pair of jeans. 

Breyer had technology day in her classroom today, and brought the chrome book in her backpack to school, as she is the only one without a personal device. The writing of this letter almost preempted myself keeping the chrome book, but I figured I'd have enough time, before Dad confiscated his for the new semester, to get one done while he transported kids and walked and showered. 

Saturday Hunter and Dad wanted to take Jules fishing at the pond but the timing didn't work out. They did go with Miller to the frisbee golf course. Breyer tagged along with Wagner. Hunter came home with a few mosquito bites. Then they went to the drive in theater for Twister, and he came home looking like he was covered in boils. He had so many bites, while everyone else had none. It was hilarious but not. I stayed home with Sawyer, punching through school assignments, as I would have required the taking of two cars. 

We've had two deaths in the ward - Sis. Gibson's nonmember daughter, and Hunter's grandmother, my sitter's mother. You know Sis. Dewey had been dealing with cancer, but the quickness of her death was surprising. We did Sis. Gibson's funeral for her Saturday, and Hunter's funeral is next Saturday. Dad has told Bro. Dewey to try and make arrangements with Hunter's mission president so he can watch the service. 

Tonight we'll take Jules to Babes, and watch Miller in his choral concert at the high school. Throw in lots of walks, Sawyer making Jules a pair of leather earrings, shooting arrows in the back yard, and playing lots of games, and finally fishing, we've enjoyed our time together immensely. How blessed we feel to have added two amazing women to our family. They're both happy, giggly, eager to try new things, and have loving parents and siblings. They both bring such great joy to your brothers, they love the Lord, and they know that raising their children is the most important thing they can do with their husbands, and are setting such great examples for this and the next generation. "For I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth." Continue the walk you're taking in bringing others to the truth. 

Have a wonderful week! 

Love, 

Mom

Thursday, May 13, 2021

Sunday, May 9, 2021

With All My Love

 Dear Elder Schenewark,


Happy Mother's Day is in full force over here, except my phone call from Elder Schenewark. I suppose with weekly calls there's no need to call on the other days that I used to get calls from my boys. So just so you know, I was thinking of you today.

Your brother Miller and your father were both speakers at sacrament meeting. Forgetting it was Mother's Day, and especially since he wasn't asked until late Thursday night, I kept asking him what his topic was - does he need any suggestions - do you want me to help...and he would only say, "I'm all set." "Wait until Sunday to find out."  He did a marvelous job. When I asked him for his talk, he told me he threw it in the trash at church. My heart broke a little. But I learned he knows I love him and he loves me back.

Your father's talk had everyone wholeheartedly laughing when he shared his secret with them. Since meetings have been "zoomed," he has sat on the stand, peeking at his ipad, to see glimpses of me near the organ. So sweet. What he didn't tell them was that he even screen shots pictures as well. He spoke of AnneMarie and her mothering of his grand daughters. He spoke of Sis. Young and the mothering influence she had in his life. He spoke of my mother, one of his favorite people in the world, as she and he love to talk together. 

Your brother and family left Texas Wednesday. They were such a delight to have here. Having a sweet baby in the home reminds you of eternity a bit more. Ingrid is a delightful, happy, contented baby. Nora is as inquisitive as her father, as busy as an uncle or two, and smart as a whip. She does love her bedtime ritual of books and a song. She would fall into bed every night, and be woken up earlier than ever with your siblings getting ready for school, and marshaled on through the day with enthusiasm. Taking down the crib yesterday left me feeling melancholy.

I hope you have a wonderful week. Know how much I love being your mother. How privileged I feel when I think about you choosing to be in our imperfect, hiliarious family. Hilarious in the fact that we sometimes parent flying by the seat of our pants. But we have the gospel to anchor us in our attempts, and are so glad you're sharing our greatest blessing with others.

Love,

Mom

Monday, May 3, 2021

The Girls in Granbury











Granbury High School Pirate Baseball


 RAIN DELAY:     Granbury High School Pirates wait out a rain delay at Tidwell Field May 3rd. A severe thunderstorm forced the cancellation of the baseball game.

Saturday, May 1, 2021

BYU Students Helping Prevent Expunged Records from Popping Up in Background Checks

Annie Knox, KSL.com | Posted - May 1, 2021 at 8:03 p.m. Deseret News

SALT LAKE CITY – It's no secret that even low-level criminal convictions can get in the way for those seeking to find a new apartment, change jobs or obtain a professional license. But for many, having the case sealed doesn't change that. Even after expungement, the records can linger online and in databases maintained by background-check services.

A group of law students and professors at Brigham Young University is now seeking to change that. They've created a new guide to help Utahns and those outside the state make sure the cases don't continue to haunt them. The online tool, Goodbye Record, also helps states and employers take steps to honor expungements.

"The court system is set up to protect society, to protect individuals, but at the end of the day, people who are eligible for expungement have all served their time," said Marie Kulbeth, an attorney and adjunct professor helping to oversee the initiative. "They've completed everything that they were told they had to do to fulfill the debt they have to society, but society doesn't really give them a break."

Kulbeth noted many have picked up low-level criminal charges while in the throes of addiction but are now in recovery and leading a life free of crime. She said they deserve a second chance.

"Everyone knows somebody with an addiction. It's part of your life, whether it's you as an individual, a family member, a friend, a colleague. You know somebody who has had the struggle," she said. "There's also the underlying idea of, 'What is justice without mercy?'"

In 2019, the Beehive State became second in the nation to adopt a so-called clean slate law, following Pennsylvania in granting automatic expungements for certain crimes. The Utah law allows those with nonviolent misdemeanor cases to have the records automatically sealed within five to seven years, but it's not up and running just yet. The state court system is at work building the complex computer system it will use to do so.

"Utah's kind of ahead of the curve in that area," said Tanner Schenewark, a BYU graduate who took the LawX class earlier this year. "Hopefully we can get this taken care of in more states."

The pandemic prevented Schenewark and his colleagues from meeting with Utahns to hear their about their experiences with expungement, but the team gathered those perspectives in the form of a survey. The results illustrated the stranglehold an old conviction can maintain on a person's professional and personal life, Schenewark said.

"They have families, they have dreams, and they have jobs," he said. "And a lot of that has to go on hold if the state doesn't get it right, or if employers don't act the way they should."

With guidance from Kulbeth, Utah Supreme Court Justice Deno Himonas and others, the eight BYU law students developed the batch of resources in one semester.

One webpage provides information on how to file complaints with U.S. regulators if a company reports an expunged case to an employer — a violation of federal law — and on getting in touch with a national expungement clearinghouse to flag cases for removal from databases.

States can take action, too. Most have contracts with background-check companies purchasing public records tied to criminal cases, Kulbeth said. So the BYU law students came up with a model contract — based on a version used in Pennsylvania — that grants the state digital access to a company's online records in order to double-check that sealed cases are no longer listed.

The records often linger for reasons that aren't nefarious, the Florida-based Accurate Information Systems notes on its website. It can be a challenge for the screening companies to make sure they're keeping up as records are sealed. Sometimes, a police agency or a different type of government agency will fail to remove a case from its own rolls, so the information shows up in the company's searches.

Utah's Administrative Office of the Courts is reviewing the contract it uses with those sorts of businesses, said spokesman Geoffrey Fattah, and is considering potential tweaks in line with what the BYU students recommend.

Their project identifies ways employers can address the issue as well. It invites them to take a pledge to support the initiative and raise their dissatisfaction if a sealed case shows up in a screening.

At the Utah Supreme Court, Himonas is cheering the students' work.

"Rather than trying to replicate other efforts," the justice said, "LawX studied the space and sought to understand what the real choke points are to create some really innovative approaches to the expungement process."